Oprah yesterday to discuss about the financial problems faced by many who family in America. many of those who owes money than doubled their income while large jg. all follow the maxim of the peg than the pole. Understanding of Suze Orman, the financial adviser that:

“How do we manage finances reflects our true self. If we messed up in managing finances, we are actually inner soul ‘chaotic’. Indication that our souls can be seen from the chaotic everyday habits such as who’s house is always messy, the foods always be left over / is not spent, buy things but not used, etc.. This shows that we can not appreciate the money. People who stabilized his soul, will not stand to see this kekacauan2 “.

In this event also, there are examples of a brother who was good at managing money, always running out of money & owe a lot, every month is always asking for money to his sister and his mother to overcome its financial problems. And the money is used sometimes not in keeping with what he said earlier.

Suze also explained that his sister and his mother NOT provide assistance in the form of money to his brother because it will not give lessons. that during this time but they DO NOT SHARE THE MONEY SHARING ‘NOTHING’. they finally got apa2 sama2 guns. the mother’s guns have a pension, the younger brother was always reduced his money and his brother guns ever realized that he must solve his own problems, learn to be responsible for himself and his life. those who make contracts signed, the contents of the contract stating that their guns would lend money again and the elder shall bear its own risk if he did not pay hutang2nya discipline. STEP 2 yg of course there must be the older brother to help him organize his finances.

sometimes because their own families, we often do not have the heart to help and feel. but that the stages are unhealthy and disturbing, we must be firm. because orang2 like this is actually a problem and they do not realize it. for help, rather than continuously dg dg give money but to give an understanding of the meaning of responsibility and priorities.